Location, Location, Location …

Lately I have been posting on Twitter looking for update ideas from those of you who have expressed an interest in my website. Having now celebrated my 12^th anniversary as a Southern Charm model, and posted my 410^th update, I think it is even more important for my future success to try to grasp what it is that people want to see.

Not long ago, someone asked me how I made decisions on what to wear and where I took my photos. In my constant search for something that will appeal, I occasionally peruse other sites and surf for a bit of porn here and there … all the while trying to keep in mind that I have my own limits and boundaries – or what my hubby refers to as “brand.” But, for the most part, I leave a lot of that up to him – and the occasional fan or special online friend that send me outfits/lingerie to pose in.

On the surface I think I fall into a certain kind of amateur porn genre. I’m certainly not a dominatrix with a penchant for serious kink … nor am I wild and crazy chandelier-swinging group-sex diva. I’m really just the woman who might live next door, who just happens to have an intriguing secret life.

Outfits tend to be the somewhat easier challenge to meet. For the most part, I’m at the age where the schoolgirl fantasy costume has been retired. I tend to think I’m a bit too old to pull that off, despite only being 39.

I’ve kind of slid into the office fantasy woman more than anything else, really. The woman you might flirt with, or take an extra long look at as she walks past your desk … the one who dresses professionally, but leaves you wondering if what is underneath her work clothes might suggest something wilder. Of course, it’s also a fantasy I’ve played out in real life, so it helps bring that mood to my website every now and then.

However, I don’t want to risk being just that kind of webmodel. I’ve seen some sites where the model has hundreds of updates, but other than the skirt and shoes she’s wearing, absolutely nothing changes – same poses, same room, same, same, same …

That said, I’m sure they face the same challenges as I do when it comes to shooting in different locations. At this stage in my life, my home environment is pretty restrictive. My children have grown into young men and their daily routines around the house (more importantly, how late they now stay up at night) means that I have to be pretty creative when it comes to getting an update done. And while booking hotel rooms, etc. might seem like a simple solution, things like that quickly add up in expense.

So, you can kind of see why I like to get some insight from the people who spend a little fantasy time with me.

Andee     xoxo