Monthly Archives: July 2013
One of the things I am most proud of in my life is my marriage. It’s a unique relationship that has endured its share of ups and downs, good times and bad. But what I am most proud of is the fact that my husband and I are committed to making it work. So many marriages seem to dissolve and the two partners involved don’t seem to want to put in the effort.
Let’s face it, society today revolves around a disposable mentality, combined with a hunger for immediate satisfaction. It’s why divorce is so prevalent; it’s why debt is so prevalent. No one wants to put in the blood, sweat and tears to achieve success; no, they want it delivered right now.
One of the other reasons why my marriage is unique is the fact that we have worked hard to shed the hang-ups that also seem to doom some relationships. Now that we have been able to find some harmony through a more adventurous spirit, the excitement has blossomed, and the experience enhanced!
1. Do you believe in marriage?
Absolutely, I do … but I also believe in working hard to make it come alive and be something to celebrate for many years, not just a trend.
2. Have you ever proposed marriage or been proposed to marry? What happened?
Yes … 22 years ago on August 14, and it’s still going strong.
3. What would be your dream way of proposing marriage?
A romantic setting in the shade of the Eiffel Tower? Maybe on a sunset-lit beach in the Caribbean?
4. What would be your nightmarish way of proposing marriage?
Count Vlad’s castle?
5. Mainstream society has engagement rings; in your opinion, what token should be given to signify engagement?
Why mess with tradition … besides it’s fun to catch guys trying to steal a peek at my ring finger on my left hand; even more so on those days when my work requires I not wear my rings.
6. What do you think would have happened to cause someone to have “Will you marry me?” on the back of their caravan?
Maybe nothing … maybe the people with the caravan are travelling ministers, going across the countryside marrying young lovers and the words on the back are their calling card?
BONUS: Tell us about someone you would have proposed to but never had the chance/opportunity.
Can’t say there is anyone out there that qualifies. I’m happily married to the only person who is worthy of that role.
I’ve had quite a few questions and comments lately about my involvement in the ‘lifestyle’ – otherwise known as swinging. I think most of you know that it has been something I have explored with my husband … and shared openly in my previous blog entries.
The truth of the matter is is, right now, I am not actively involved in what might be construed as ‘swinging.’ Although my husband and I haven’t really discussed the idea of late as to whether or not we want to even go that route again. Outside of an afternoon of fun last year with my Office Guy, we haven’t put forth any effort to convince ourselves of whether or not it is something for us.
As I have shared previously, our past experiences with swinging never seemed to produce that ‘click’ that we were looking for. We met some great people, explored some great moments together and shared some great orgasms, but that certain ‘chemistry’ just didn’t boil over into something that shouted “this is what we were looking for.”
Now, that’s not to say my interest isn’t there any more – quite the contrary. I still have a tremendous amount of curiosity and thirst for sexual adventure, but a number of real life factors have come into play where inviting someone else into our sex life is a bit too complicated.
And right now, for me, the idea of swinging is a little … hmm, not sure if intimidating is the right description; or maybe even off-putting. I have definitely discovered I am not the kind of person who can indulge in a very casual hook-up. In order for my libido to be working at its highest level, I need to have a very sincere interest and attraction in the other person/people. This is why my Office Guy was the perfect fit for me – someone I sincerely had chemistry with, but understood the boundaries and that the experience was only about fun. Sadly it seems in real life there are too many complications for that idea to be easy.
I still get incredibly turned on with the idea of having another man to enjoy, to taste and feel – and my bisexuality really needs to be stroked from the inside out, but the catch is finding those partners who will fit into our twisted sense of lust and desire.
The other aspect of why we haven’t explored deeper relates a lot to how I currently feel about myself. Real life has caught up to me a bit more than I like and when you don’t feel sexy within yourself, it’s hard to go out to a sexually charged atmosphere and pretend. And it’s not as simple as having you guys tell me different. I love the compliments; but I also want to believe them … and when you don’t feel it inside, you don’t think it either.
But all is not lost there, as I have made conscious decision to change that – and so hopefully in a couple months time, you’ll be noticing how much more in shape I look when you are enjoying my photos.
Hey everyone, I know it’s been a while since I wrote something for you, but I’ve been dealing with some major offline changes in my life and a week of vacation. If you follow me on Twitter, you’ll know that I just made the decision to pursue my day job in a whole new environment and that brings about a whole new adventure. It won’t change much for my online life – except maybe give me the chance to start some new conversations as I tempt fate elsewhere for a while!
Anyway, we’re here again for another TMI Tuesday, this week penned as “What I like About You” … which is actually me, in context.
1. Tell us about you in 10 words or less.
The girl next door with a very naughty secret side.
2. What radio stations do you have programmed and regularly listen to (format, genre)?
My radio listening is generally tuned to a couple stations that provide in-depth traffic reports in the morning to make my commute as easy as possible, and a handful of pop/top-40 stations that play music I can sing to.
3. What color are your eyes today?
My eyes have always been, and likely will remain, a deep brown. They are something I get sincere compliments on, when you guys take a moment to notice them.
4. Did you shave today?
5. What’s your personality?
Offline, I’m rather shy and reserved. Once I get to know you, I can be exceptionally flirty and funny. I try very hard to get along with most people, but have a competitive streak.
Online, I’m completely naughty, outwardly flirty and a hell of a lot bolder than I should be!
6. Tell us two things that most people mention they like about you.
Offline, my sense of humour and the fact that I’m willing to try anything once.
7. Name one thing that you really like about yourself.
That I had the courage to take the first step … in a lot of directions … and take control of where I was going instead of just being a passenger in life.
BONUS: How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?
I would be 39 … but let’s be honest, I want to take the knowledge I have now at 39 and work it back into the body I had at 18.
There are some blanks in life that just never seem to fill in … like those 80s fashions. Thankfully digital camera’s weren’t so popular then. This week for TMI Tuesday, we get to fill a few empty spaces of a different sort.
1. If my sex life were a film, it would be rated _____ .
Without question, it would be restricted. It’s not that my sex life is really all that out there, but if frequently involves props, batteries, restraints and an awful lot of dirty talk.
2. I got a body for ____ and a face for ____ .
Hmm … this is a tough one. I’m not happy with my physical self right now, so I would have to say I have a body ready for renovation and a face perfect for a wanted poster – you know, the old Wild West kind of wanted poster … because I would love to see what kind of bounty the sheriff would put on me!
3. It’s extremely sexy when a guy/girl ____ .
Dresses to impress. There’s so many things that can be “sexy” but I love someone who has the confidence to wear their style and wear it well.
4. Doing _____ naked makes me _____ .
Hmm … a sexual answer? Too obvious … How about, doing housework naked makes me feel just a little bit naughty. And I don’t mean, doing it for the purpose of being sexual, but doing it for the freedom of being naked – and the risk that my neighbour may just look out his window at the right time and catch a glimpse of me through my window.
5. In the morning, I am always _____ .
Easy … just a bit out of reality until I have my first coffee. And rushed. I’m always rushed in the morning, no matter how much I think I have it all planned out.
6. I would love to _____ in the _____ .
Again, so many options … But this is something a bit more romantic: kiss in the shadow of the Eiffel Tower. Yep, cliche.
BONUS: Roses are ____ , Violets are ____ , YOU CREATE THE REST OF THE POEM
Roses are red, violets are blue
My fantasy includes you … and you 😉
So, there you go guys … another TMI Tuesday. Of course, if you want to know more about me, feel free to ask whatever it is you like!
Thanks for stopping by my new home today. I hope you enjoy some of the great new things that you’ll find on my blog … starting today with a sexy new eBook filled with all my erotic writing.
I moved over to this site because my former online neighbourhood decided it was OK to ignore all the truly illegal things that happen online (copyright infringements, hate speech, etc) but they would not tolerate the naughty little girls like me that enjoy sex a bit too much … and want you to tag along for the adventure.
Oh well, water under the bridge as I am now looking at the many new options available to me to continue the journey.
For those who are used to all my weekly updates, such as Miniskirt Monday, Topless Tuesday and Thigh High Thursday … yep, they’re all here too! Nothing has changed except your bookmarks, I hope!
And to all my hot and sexy Canadians – Happy Canada Day! Have a good one, eh!