Monthly Archives: September 2011
My husband and I were talking last night about some ideas for blogging and I pressed him a bit about the idea of how certain smells take my mind to sexual moments. We have never been one of those couples to incorporate food into our sex life, other than to make sexual innuendo comments about the English cucumber in the produce aisle; which is even funnier when they are sealed in vacuum-wrap plastic. Who knew cucumbers practiced safe sex?
I’m not suggesting that I want my own personal 9 1/2 Weeks scene … you know, where Kim Basinger and Mickey Rourke get really raunchy in the light of the refrigerator … but there are many ways to connect the aphrodisiac qualities of certain foods to an awesome experience in the kitchen.
A bit reason behind this is that my hubby has never been one to find food all that sexually stimulating. He says the idea of slathering on some sort of whipped cream bikini is delightfully humorous, but doesn’t exactly send him over the moon.
So, I think we’re at a bit of a crossroads with one idea for sexual experimentation.
Alcohol is something completely different…especially if you get one of those wine bottles with a really long neck. Now that sends the imagination into an erotic whirlwind.
The closest we typically get to food in our sex life if flavoured lube.
And so these days, the smell of blueberries always makes me smile…
- Sexual attractiveness
- Social attractiveness
Good morning guys! Here’s a little sneak peek at my latest update, which went live today on my website!
I know a lot of you have this thing for stockings are garters, and lately I have certainly been enjoying learning all about those naughty little thoughts. Now that I can see just what the excitement is all about, I think you will be enjoying this look quite a bit more on me!
I’m also working away madly at my newest project for you, which I will hopefully get posted in a little while. I mentioned before about something special for the Fall, and after some careful consideration and a great deal of masturbation, settled on taking you a deeper into my fantasies.
Stick around to see just what things pop into my mind when I need a little sexual distraction…and feel free to share yours with me too!
One of the things I find myself needing to do a bit more is stepping out of my comfort zone. Lately I have been thinking about where my sexual adventure has been going, and while I have made great leaps this past year, I find that there is still so much more I want.
Most recently I have challenged my own fears just a bit with, as you have read, letting someone I know and see in my offline life into my online life. Beyond family and a few very close friends, this was the first time I had done that … and I found it exceptionally exciting, exhilarating and frightening all at once.
But I guess that is a good thing though. It helped me recognize that there is a huge desire within me to explore even bigger ideas, fantasies and experiences. And desire, whether it is just a thought in the back of my mind or an obvious out-there-for-everyone-to-see quality, is a healthy emotion.
Some people may suggest that it can be a dangerous thing, and I would have to agree to a certain point. For me, these explorations teeter on the edge of what may be a healthy relationship and an outright twist to the left of sexual perversion.
Well, maybe not quite that extreme … I know my fantasies and desires are shared by many, and relatively safe in a physical sense.
But without a sense of desire, where do our relationships sit? Even though I have been with the same person for over 20 years now, there is still a huge element of desire in our sexual explorations together. As we grow even more intimate (yes, that is possible even after 20 years), the boundaries expand, the intrigue grows and fantasies flourish. And, as we all know, it is that sense of desire that leads us to a whole world of experience – and not just in the bedroom.
What seems to counter that is the dreaded comfort zone I mentioned.
Hey there guys, here’s another little bit of me talking about relationships. This time I touching on keeping a marriage interesting, and why that is important if you hope to have a successful – and adventurous – experience together.
And, don’t forget that I put together a FREE read about how to get your partner to rock your world. It’s an eBook looking at some of things I found invaluable in getting my own relationship on the path of some incredible sexual adventures. Just click on the cover, at the top right of my blog home page.
And just because it’s Tuesday, there is also another hot and sexy Topless Tuesday post. Only a couple more weeks left in that summertime distraction … any ideas what you would like to see for the 13 weeks of Fall?